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A long time ago I was a ballroom dancer with my sister. When we danced, people were always impressed. To be honest, I wasn’t very good. My sister, though, was brilliant. Not only could she follow, she could backlead.
Player A plays as a spect with a clear point of view and play style. Player B plays in a way that makes Player A feel like they are with someone who is like them.
Have you ever seen two people in a restaurant who are totally into each other? They mirror each other. Their bodies are in similar positions. When one leans forward, the other does too. They both take a drink at the same time. The fact is, when people feel connected, they tend to mirror each other.
Spend time with a friend, secretly mirroring their body language. Be subtle so they remain unaware of what you are doing.