The Encyclopedia of Interactive Performance

Two players look deeply into each other's eyes. After a while, they briefly look away, and then re-establish eye contact. One says, “Hello,” and the other says, “Hello.” They hold eye contact for a while, then look away and back again. When ready, one player says, “I see you,” and the other says, “I see you.” They hold eye contact, then break and re-establish it again. When ready, one player says, “I could be hurt by you.” The other says, “I know.” They continue to hold eye contact until one looks away. Then the exercise is over.

Variations

Penultimate line – Replace “I could be hurt by you” with another line that is emotionally charged.

Notes

• Allow yourself to be vulnerable
• Take your time. Don’t rush to speak.
• Keep all of your focus on your partner.