
Have you ever seen wolf pups play? They’re ferocious. They growl, snarl, pounce, and bite, but they don’t pierce the skin or draw blood. This is because they’re engaged in play. Play can be ferocious while also being safe and fun.
Ferocious play respects the strength of others by treating them as strong and giving them the opportunity to be so.
When playing ferociously, it’s important to stay aware of the impact on other players. If your ferocity is too much for others, dial it back. The point of ferocious play is to invite others to engage with full commitment. If it’s overwhelming, others may no longer feel safe which causes them to shut down. Always modulate the ferocity of your play to a degree where others feel challenged, while still feeling safe.
Updated: July 22, 2024